Meat Italy! A Comparison during Carnevale!


Well everyone,

My luck as turned around and is on a good path right now.  I got money and I got my Italian sim card for my phone.  Plus in our language and culture class we were informed that Milan celebrates Carnevale a week later than the rest of Italy.  So here is to Carnevale.  I have learned quite a bit from my pre-session class.  It is like I was semi understanding of a language I had never heard before.  Now I can at least make it through my day to day life with some Italian language. After a rainy and dreary weekend, the weather has somewhat cleared up and it is chilly, but beautiful.  It is a great day to start Milan’s Carnevale and I am loving it so far. It isn’t a huge party week, but everyone is enjoying the meats and pastries that are made only for Carnevale.  Speaking of pastries I had the most delicious pastry today. Chiacchiere (translation “little gossips”), they are so good.  They come in different flavors (I had powdered sugar covered ones).  They are called “little gossips” due to the sound they make as you eat them it sounds like people chatting.  They were so good (might just have to buy more).  This is one of my favorite foods so far.  It is wonderful! It sort of tastes like a crispy funnel cake (which those I love).  

Comparison Italy vs. U.S.:

·         Which in talking about pastries and food leads me to the differences between Italy and American food and restaurants.  In the U.S. when you go to the store to buy groceries and such and have a budget of $25 (say for one person for 3 days of food).  You could probably get close to the budget if you like ramen noodles and peanut butter due to the tax on everything at the register.  Here in Italy you could walk into the market (store) and add everything up by the price marked and get probably more than you would in the U.S. Due to the tax if any already added into the price.  As well in Italy you have to pay for your grocery bag if you need one (I advise just taking a backpack or your own bag). Restaurants compared between Italy and the U.S. is a huge difference.  In Italy if you choose to sit down (there is a fee), you are seated, 
bread and oil brought to your table, drinks ordered, then the waiter disappears for a few minutes for you to look over the menu.  After that time they come back take the orders and disappear until your bread runs out or your order is ready.  Then they will stop by a couple times to check how the meal is.  They are friendly, but know that you are there to eat and enjoy the food not to badger you.  In the U.S. you are either seated by a hostess or just seat yourself, given a menu, order a drink, and sit there patiently.  Once they bring your drink and you order it takes twice as long as it should to be done, then most of the time there is a mistake, then you make the cook and waiter mad (which is never good).  Then it seems once it is fixed and you can eat the waiter stops by to chit chat and ask how everything is now that you just want to eat.  Also Italian eat really late.  I mean like I eat early at 7 pm (1 pm EST time) most nights.  A group of us went out to eat last week and left at 10:30 from the restaurant when most people had just ordered or received their food.  Also Italians like to savor their food.  It is not uncommon for them to sit and eat and talk for 2 plus hours over a meal. 

In other comparisons:

·         Italians are very pet friendly.  Now this is how I know. First, dogs are allowed in restaurants, shops and stores (seriously and not petsmart).  I have seen countless dogs in restaurants.  Also when it is raining or cold outside most dogs wear coats and boots (don’t laugh I’m serious). Big to small they all wear raincoats or sweaters and little boots.  I have even seen one person walking their dog holding an umbrella over the dog.  I mean I love my dog, but I would never hold an umbrella for it over myself.  I actually am considering the coat and boots for my dog though (Blue beware).

·         Italians are very punctual when it comes to closing time or end of business.  They literally will close the door if the clock changes and the door was half way open in your hand (I know this from experience).  They also rush you if you are in the market 30 minutes before closing. They love their end of business time. 

·         Italians are always decently dressed.  I mean sweatpants are rare and I’ve only seen those who are playing soccer or working out wearing them out.   The popular trends seem to be skinny jeans or jeggings with ankle boots and a coat or jacket that has a belt around the middle.  Everybody wears this (and I mean everybody young, old, really old).  Also it seems that the black thick rimmed (nerd) glasses are very popular here.  Natural is also the way to go. Black and brown (tan, army green, white, and grey) are the colors most people wear.  Also natural in make-up and hair styles (straight, way, messy, curly, and pulled-up).  Which leads me to I wish I would have packed more of my boots and more tops to match the colors that are popular here and left a couple things at home.  Just means I need to go shopping!

·         Personal space. Oh how is it completely different?  Well Italians believe that personal space is approximately the 3-6 inches around your body.  Metros are crazy and the platforms at busy times is insane.  Even the stores and markets gets hectic when trying to get your stuff and people breathing on your neck.  Sidewalks (especially during rain) are crazy close. Like what is personal space any more.


I’m looking forward to the rest of the week. This is the last week of my pre-session language class and next Monday is the start of my classes.  May be I can get out and about more this weekend and share a slice of the beauty of Italy with y’all.  I miss home, but love Italy! I miss all my friends and family! Well wishes to all from Italia!


Ciao Amici!